Notice. Choose. Repeat.

Build a mind that works for you in five minutes a day

Small tools · Real science · No guru

"You can control what you think, you can control how you think, and therefore you can control who you are."
Eileen Gu, Olympic gold medallist

She's living proof of the destination. This book is the method the rest of us can use to get there.

What you'll learn

Why positive thinking backfires

And what the research says works instead. Cognitive reappraisal, process visualisation, implementation intentions: translated into tools that take under five minutes.

Why your brain treats an email like a tiger

The guard dog in your head fires at modern life with ancient ammunition. Learn to recognise the bark and choose your response in six seconds.

Why imagining success reduces effort

And what to imagine instead. Process rehearsal builds the pathways for the actual work. Outcome fantasy builds the pathway for sitting on the sofa.

The Five-Minute Morning

All six tools combined into a single routine you can do while the kettle boils. Five steps. Five minutes. Every morning.

Who this book is for

People who want to change how they think but don't have time for meditation, therapy, or morning routines designed for someone else's life.


People who've tried positive thinking and felt worse. People who've been told to "just relax" by someone who has never had to manage two jobs, three kids, and a Tuesday that won't stop coming.


People who want the science without the jargon, the tools without the guru, and something that actually works in five minutes while the kettle boils.


Every tool has a minimum dose. The smallest takes five seconds. The longest takes five minutes. The techniques on which they are based have been tested on thousands of people across hundreds of studies. They do not require belief in order to be practised.

The toolkit

The One-Sentence Check-In

"What am I thinking right now?" 10 seconds.

The Expectation Check

"Am I reacting to what's happening, or what I expect?" 10 seconds.

The Six-Second Rule

Count slowly to six before reacting. A practical pause.

The Dashboard Glance

"What am I thinking? Is it helping?" At your chosen anchor.

The Second Story

"What else might be true?" 30 seconds.

The Name Switch

"What does [Name] need to do right now?" 5 seconds.

The One-Minute Rehearsal

Picture yourself doing it. Not finishing it. 60 seconds.

The If-Then Plan

"If ___, then I will ___." 15 seconds to create.

The Pocket

One thing. No phone. Whatever time you've got.

The Five-Minute Morning

All tools combined. While the kettle boils.

Get the book

Available on Amazon in paperback and ebook.

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